Never search ur happiness in
others which will make u feel alone,
but search it in urself u will
feel happy even if u are left alone..

Be civil to all; sociable to many; familiar with few; friend to one; enemy to none.
- Benjamin Franklin

Challenges are what make life interesting; overcoming them is what makes life meaningful.
- Joshua J. Marine

I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward.
- Thomas A. Edison

Small opportunities are often the beginning of great enterprises.
- Demosthenes

Follow effective action with quiet reflection. From the quiet reflection will come even more effective action.
- Peter F. Drucker

It’s not hard to make decisions when you know what your values are.
- Roy Disney

The world is a dangerous place, not because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing.
- Albert Einstein

Believe deep down in your heart that you’re destined to do great things.
- Joe Paterno

To succeed, you need to take that gut feeling in what you believe and act on it with all of your heart.
- Christy Borgeld

Change does not necessarily assure progress, but progress implacably requires change. Education is essential to change, for education creates both new wants and the ability to satisfy them.
- Henry Steele Commager

No matter how carefully you plan your goals they will never be more that pipe dreams unless you pursue them with gusto.
- W. Clement Stone

Life is a great big canvas, and you should throw all the paint you can on it.
- Danny Kaye

Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish. A little knowledge that acts is worth infinitely more than much knowledge that is idle.
- John Quincy Adams

Hi Friends..
i know i am posting after a really long time.
Forgive me for that..

here are some quotes i came across..

“Giving up is the easiest thing in the word to do.
But holding together everything everything,
when everything seems to be falling
apart is the True Strength…”

You can make a difference in your world.
It is not how much you accomplish in life
that really counts, but how much you GIVE to others.

Whatever you LOVE, you are its master.
Whatever you HATE, you are its slave.

The BEAUTY of life does not depend on how happy you are
but on how happy others can be … because of you.

“When it come to glass half full or half empty
I see it as half empty coz that’s how i can fill it.”

The Tree which has the Sweetest fruits gets
the maximum number of Stones..

“”Nothing is permanent
in this world,
not even our troubles.. !”"

“”The most wasted
day in life, the day
in which, we
have not
laughed.”"

“”I like walking
in the rain,
becoz nobody
can see
my
tears.”"

But wait can you recognize someone? The only one, unlike you, is full of optimism, happiness and cheerfulness….YES; it’s our inner being determined always to have a GOOD DAY!!!!

I believe “Every day may not be good, but there’s something good in everyday” and with this intention, I am initiating the thread “Today is a good day” and want all my ILs friends to nurture this positive thought by sharing the smallest good thing that made them happy (even if it was for a while) for that day.

If Attitudes are contagious… as quoted by Dennis and Wendy Mannering, then I bet positive attitude of yours is worth catching up….

Don’t think you’re not important,
It simply isn’t true,
The fact that you were born,
Is proof, God has a plan for you.
The path may seem unclear right now,
But one day you will see,
That all that came before,
Was truly meant to be,
God wrote the book that is Life,
That’s all you need to know.
Each day that you are living,
Was written long ago.
God only writes best sellers,
So be proud of who you are,
Your character is important,
In this book, you are the ‘Star’…

2.Dress Up !!
The best way to dress up is to put on a smile.
A smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.

3.Shut Up!!
Say nice things and learn to listen. With two ears and one mouth..
it’s meant for us to do twice as much listening as talking.
“He who guards his lips guards his soul.”

4.Stand Up!!
for what you believe in. Stand for something or you will fall for anything.
“Let us not be weary in doing good; for at the proper time,
we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.
Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good…”

5.Look Up !!
Keep yourself centered. Remember, you are important.
“I can do everything through ALLAH who strengthens me”.

6.Reach Up !!
for something higher. Trust with all your heart,
and lean not unto your own understanding.

7.Lift Up !!
your Prayers. “Do not worry about anything;
instead PRAY ABOUT EVERYTHING.”

Every day is a good day.
But when I’m experiencing
A day full of frustrations,
I don’t call it a bad day,
I call it an “interesting” day.
This habit keeps me
From being overwhelmed
With negative emotions.

Why does this work?
Repetitive thoughts
And words create feelings.
Those feelings create a positive or
Negative behavior pattern.

If I tell myself it’s a bad day,
I began to feel defeated and exhausted.
If my day has one issue after another,
If I tell myself it’s an “interesting” day
This keeps my open to gratitude, hope, solutions,
Resiliency,and sometimes even a sense of humor.

I try to monitor my words when
I’m feeling in a slump so I can avoid those
“knot in your stomach – stressful – anxious -
Sickening – I’m losing it” feelings.

I had one of those “interesting” days recently
And reminded myself to stop,
Do some deep breathing and re-group.

If you’re having an “interesting” day,
Let these words minister to you.
Sometimes the children are screaming,
The boss is irritating,
The traffic is slow and
The bill collectors won’t go.

Sometimes you feel strong and confident.
Sometimes you’re full of regrets and
Wonder where all the time went.

Sometimes you feel like you want to give up.
Sometimes you’re too tired to move
’cause you have so much to do.

Sometimes you’re lonely and
Wonder if love will ever come.

Sometimes you’re glad to be alone
To think your own thoughts.

Sometimes life is easy and sometimes hard.

Today be grateful that you’ve come this far.
Breathe in peace, faith and hope.

All the answers…I do not know.
But I’m here to say, count your blessings.
Don’t give up.
You can make it.

Little miracles happen each day.
Don’t miss them because you’re focusing
On your pain, frustrations and fears.

Constantly work on the five main things
You need to live in peace and harmony

1) faith,
2) family and friends,
3) finances,
4) good health
And
5) your life purpose..

Without these in your life….
Life can drive you crazy.

Manoj Rai

Dreams are a big part of our Lives
and You must do whatever it takes
to make them a Reality;
by the plans you make,
the course you take,
and the things you do.

Don’t dwell on past mistakes.
Leave yesterday behind,
along with all it’s problems,
worries and doubts.

Realize you can’t change the past,
but you can start a new tomorrow.
Don’t try to do everything at once;
take one step at a time,

Don’t ever be afraid to try the Impossible
no matter what others may think.
Remember you are Unique
in your own special way.

Don’t ever stop Dreaming!
Don’t ever stop wanting what’s right for you!
HAVE A NICE DAY

The rest of their friends gathered
To see the boys at play
They talked about it to themselves
“Will they make it?” “No way!”

They called up to the children
“You’ll never make it up that tree”
But the boys just kept on climbing
And said “just watch and you will see”

But the others, how they shouted
And thought the boys tried to ignore
They began to drop out one by one
Another, another and then more

But one boy kept on climbing
And made it to the top of the tree
He never lost faith but believed in himself
And said “this won’t defeat me”

The others were quite amazed
At the squirrel at the top of the tree
“How on earth did he do it?” they said
“Well”, said one, “he’s completely deaf, you see”

So the motto of this poem is
You can reach the top of the tree
Just don’t listen to what others say
Just believe in yourself and you’ll see………

Always remember to forget
the friends that proved untrue,
But never forget to remember
those that have stuck by you

Always remember to forget
the troubles that passed away
But never forget to remember
the blessings that come each day.

Manoj Rai

There’s no such thing as
a bad hug, only good ones
and great ones

non-fattening and
they don’t cause cancer or cavities..

all natural
with no preservatives, artificial
ingredients or pesticide residue…

cholesterol- free,
naturally sweet, 100% wholesome
and they are a completely
renewable resource….

Easy to c are for, they don’t require batteries,
tune-ups, or x-rays…
Manoj Rai

At times I’m so discouraged
With the problems of the day,
I fail to see the joyful things
That are along the way.

When troubles overwhelm me
it’s then my nerves may fray.
That’s when I need to take the time
To simply sit and pray.

Reflecting on God’s many gifts,
It makes me so aware
Of all the joy in little things
Around me everywhere!

I must try to remember
Though problems come my way,
Not to miss the joyful things
And the beauty of the day.

I feared being alone
Until I learned to like Myself.
I feared failure
Until I realized that I only Fail when I don’t try.
I feared success
Until I realized that I had to try in order to be happy with myself.
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I feared

people’s opinions
Until I learned that people would have opinions about me anyway.
I feared rejection
Until I learned to have faith in myself.
I feared pain
Until I learned that it’s necessary for growth
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I feared the

truth
Until I saw the ugliness in lies..
I feared life
Until I experienced its beauty .
I feared death
Until I realized that it’s not an end, but a beginning.
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I feared my destiny,
Until I realized that I had the power to change my life.
I feared hate
Until I saw that it was nothing more than ignorance.
I feared love
Until it touched my heart, making the darkness fade into endless sunny days.
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I feared ridicule
Until I learned how to laugh at myself.
I feared growing old
Until I realized that I gained wisdom every day.
I feared the future
Until I realized that Life just kept getting better.
I feared the past
Until I realized that It could no longer hurt me.
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I feared the dark
Until I saw the beauty of the starlight.
I feared the light
Until I learned that the Truth would give me Strength.
I feared change,
Until I saw that even the most beautiful butterfly had to undergo a Metamorphosis before it could fly.

I have a God who’s mighty,
Who’s sovereign and supreme;
I have a God who loves me,
and I am on His team.

He is all-wise and powerful.
God is His name;
Though everything is changeable,
My God remains the same.

My God knows all that’s happening;
Beginning to the end;
His presence is my comfort;
He is my dearest Friend.

When sickness comes to weaken me,
To bring my head down low,
I call upon my mighty God;
Into His arms I go.

When circumstances threaten
to rob me of my peace;
He draws me close unto His breast,
Where all my striving cease.

When my heart melts within me,
and weakness takes control;
He gathers me into His arms,
He soothes my heart and soul.

The great “I AM” is with me.
My life is in His hand;
The “Son of the Lord” is my hope,
It’s in His strength I stand.

I refuse to be defeated,
My eyes are on my God;
He has promised to be with me,
as through this life I trod.

I’m looking past all my circumstances,
To Heaven’s throne above;
My prayers have reached the heart of God
I’m resting in His love.

I give God thanks in everything.
My eyes are on His face;
The battle’s His, the victory mine;
He’ll help me win the race.

Manoj Rai

Concentrate on your assets.
Successful people do not dwell on their weaknesses. They focus on their strengths. Learn to keep your focus on your assets and you will notice the change in your days very quickly.

Use positive words.
Positive words build a positive life. Fill your life with as many positive words as you can think of. Then grow your vocabulary to include more! Learn to speak positive whenever you open your mouth.

Enlarge your vision.
If your vision for your life does not stretch you and seem like a challenge to reach then you will never enjoy the success that could be yours. Learn to think big thoughts for your life.

Realize the importance of your job.
When you think of your job as one that has importance and meaning and when you realize where your job will take you, life takes on a much greater meaning. Find the reasons why your job matters, not just to you but to the people around you and in your community, as well.

Focus on your objectives.
Too often our minds want to focus on the problems we are encountering. We think that by focusing on the problems we will solve them. Not true. Train yourself to get your mind off your problems and to focus on your objectives. Now you have discovered how to overcome the obstacles in life. Your brain wants to focus on objectives and how to get there and as a result, take you to your success.

Believe in you
When your doubt and confusion
Blind you to the reality
Of your beauty and strength

Believe in you
When the road becomes dark
And you feel the path
Has fallen from beneath your feet

Believe in you
When what you seek for tomorrow
Seems forever lost
In the confusion of today

Believe in you
When all you wish
Is to slumber, to dream
And awaken, cleansed of turmoil and trepidation

Believe in you
For you are
Your own
Deliverance

Believe in you
Half as much
As I believe
And you will prevail…
NarSingh

I wish so much you wouldn’t cry
The way you did today,
While thinking of the many things,
We didn’t get to say.

I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you,
And each time that you think of me,
I know you’ll miss me too;

But when tomorrow starts without Me,
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name,
And took me by the hand,

And said my place was ready,
In heaven far above,
And that I’d have to leave behind
All those I dearly love.

But as I turned to walk away,
A tear fell from my eye
For all my life, I’d always thought,
I didn’t want to die.

I had so much to live for,
So much left yet to do,
It seemed almost impossible,
That I was leaving you.

I thought of all the yesterdays,
The good ones and the bad,
I thought of all the love we shared,
And all the fun we had.

If I could relive yesterday,
Just even for a while,
I’d say good-bye and kiss you
And maybe see you smile.

But then I fully realized,
That this could never be,
For emptiness and memories,
Would take the place of me.

And when I thought of worldly things,
I might miss come tomorrow,
I thought of you, and when I did,
My heart was filled with sorrow.

But when I walked through Heaven’s gates,
I felt so much at home.
When God looked down and smiled at me,
From His great golden throne,

He said, “This is eternity,
And all I’ve promised you.
Today your life on earth is past,
But here life starts anew.

“I promise no tomorrow,
But today will always last,
And since each day’s the same way
There’s no longing for the past.

“You have been so faithful,
So trusting and so true.
Though there were times
You did some things
You knew you shouldn’t do.

“But you have been forgiven
And now at last you’re free.
So won’t you come and take my hand
And share my life with me.”

So when tomorrow starts without Me,
Don’t think we’re far apart,
For every time you think of Me,
I’m right here, in your heart.

Send this to all those you care about…
Because you never know what’s going to happen tomorrow…
Show them how much you care, before it’s too late…

Manoj Rai

Why is gratitude so very powerful?
Because it keeps you Connected to all
the good things in your life.

Don’t let the immense value that’s already
yours wander away Because of neglect.
Take time to remember, take time to
Celebrate and be grateful, and
take time to say thank you.

Instead of continually wishing for more,
take a loving and Thankful look at all
that you already have.
By sincerely Appreciating what’s
already yours, you can build upon it to
Reach any dream you could possibly imagine.

Make it a habit to reflect each day on
how truly fortunate You are.
It is your awareness that enables your
richest Blessings to continue unfolding
and expanding throughout Your world.

See the beauty that’s already there,
and the value that’s Already yours.
It is more than enough to propel you
Positively and meaningfully forward.
~Ralph Marston~